Human beings are beings that motion through life in search for a purpose; beings that are in continuous search for the grand truth –the truth that will answer questions such as “Why do we choose to exist, if the alternative which is non-existence seems to be much less of a hassle?” 

            In our search for truth, one of the most common concept tackled is the concept of death. Since all human beings will cease to exist at one point in time, it would seem absurd to try to achieve so much just to render them useless upon our death in this material world. For if we believe that after our death in the material world there will be nothing more, even the argument that we live for the people around us or for the greatness we feel because of success would be futile because the bottom line would be that we will all die and our relationships nor our successes will not matter. 

            I would then think that it useful to believe that when a human being ceases to exist in the material world, it should continue its existence in another world, for only then would it still be sensible for us to continue living. 

            With this, I believe that the human being consists of soul and body, in which the soul is not separate from the body but is separable from it and by separable, I mean that it can be separated for a span of time, but not for eternity.

            Following part of Aristotle’s idea, I say that the soul is not separate from the body because I believe that a human being consists of soul and body, and if they are already entities in themselves they can no longer be the composition of the human being as one entity. Furthermore, if the soul and body are two separate entities then they will not be able to occupy the same space at the same time.

            Also, I believe that the soul is not separate from the body because if this is so, it would mean that the soul and the body can then operate even without each other. I would like to oppose the idea that they can operate separately using two illustrations. The first is that if the body is separate from the soul, then a cadaver, or a dead person’s body, should then be able to continue its bodily operations even after death of the human; that is it should still be able to continue at least the nutritive and sensitive operations. The second is that the soul should be able to continue to perform intellectual operations, operations of self-consciousness even without the body. We cannot know for sure what the state of the soul is after the death of the human person, however we can say that it cannot continue to be conscious of a self because in order to have self-consciousness, there must be a self to be conscious about and that self is the human being compose of body and soul, and not only the soul. We cannot say that we are conscious of our soul because it is not something we know of for sure, and therefore we cannot genuinely “catch” or find the concept of the soul alone when we try to be self-conscious. Unlike in the concept of the human person which consists of both soul and body, wherein we can at least be conscious when the body and soul operate together, for instance we can be conscious of the operations of sensitivity.

            Saying that I believe that a cadaver cannot continue bodily operations after the death of the human reveals my position in believing that there is something that leaves the human person upon its death; and my understanding of this thing which leaves is that it is the soul. This would pose confusion because one can argue that if the soul can leave the body then it would mean they are separate entities. However this is where I would like to assert my earlier point that even as I believe that the soul is not separate from the body, I think it is separable for a certain time and it is important to emphasize that I believe that this separation is not for eternity. I believe they are separable only at the moment of death. That is to say that upon death of a human person the soul does not die with the body. 

            I would not be in the position to make a conclusion as to where the soul goes or as to what happens to it after the death of the human person, but I would like to posit that the soul is immortal. This is because I cling to my belief that the only reason for human beings to continue to choose life over death is the hope that there is a continuance of life even after the death in the material world.

            When I say that the soul and body are not separate, I say this with regard to their operations, because the soul and body are not merely separate entities that help each other in their respective operations but are rather essential partners that need to be together in order to carry out their operations in the first place. Therefore, I believe that the nature of the soul is to be with the body and the body to be with the soul. 

            If their nature then is to be with each other, it follows that it would be against their nature to be separated from each other and more over to be separated for eternity. And this separation, I believe is precisely what death of the human person brings. Following Aristotle’s stand on the nature of things, that “nothing against its nature can exist forever” (Aristotle), it would then be only detrimental for the body if it will be eternally separated from the soul –which may explain the reason why that while the body continues to function shortly after death, it does not continue to function for long. At the same time it is also detrimental for the soul if it is eternally separated from the body.

            Therefore, from this standpoint that nothing against its nature can exist forever, it would only be sensible that the soul and the body would reunite at some point in time in order for the soul to be truly immortal. That is to say that if the body would resurrect, it may either be because the body’s nature in itself is to resurrect so that it can be together with the soul again or it may be because by the sheer force of nature, it resurrects for the good of the soul; so that the soul can be immortal. With this, however we can only say that we cannot be sure of what the nature of the resurrected body is.

            Having defined my understanding of what the human person is I now turn to considering the self in terms of not the soul and body, but as a bundle of perceptions. Hume’s idea is that human beings are just bundles of perceptions, of which perceptions are further broken down to impressions and ideas.  He further reasons that we perceive through our five senses, namely the sense of sight, taste, hearing, smell, and touch, and that whatever we perceive or experience are the only things that can possibly be real. And since the “SELF” cannot be perceived by the five senses, then there must be no SELF. 

            Hume’s ideology is appealing because it does have truth in it; what we call the SELF has never been, in human history, perceived through the five senses. For Hume, whatever idea we have of unperceivable things would just be our ideas and impressions of perceivable things that are stocked in our memories so that we can recreate them as simulations in our minds. This is much like the idea of a pig that flies using elephant ears where we have a concept of the pig from reality, and the concept of the flying elephant ears from the Disney movie, Dumbo, which in itself is actually a non-reality already. And with these two ideas we come up with something that is non-existent which is the flying pig with elephant ears. No matter how real we think the flying pig is, it can never be real because we just made it up with our ideas and impression of different realities. With this, Hume suggests that whenever we refer to a self, we also just create this idea of an actually non-existent SELF in our minds, with the help of our memory, as it puts together our ideas and impressions of other real things. 

            I would however find some confusion in his ideology because if Hume says that we are but bundles of perceptions then he is suggesting all human beings are merely perceivers.    

            However the mere fact that we can recreate different ideas and impressions we have perceived shows that we are not merely collectors of perceivable information. We also have a function that puts these ideas together and in turn, enables us to recreate something else in our imaginations. 

            Furthermore, the concept that we are merely bundles of perceptions overlooks the fact that people may perceive things differently and therefore discounts the fact that human beings are also capable of analyzing. Surely it is not one of the five senses nor is it the five senses working altogether that analyzes because analyzing is not the function of any of those senses. What then is this thing that analyses? Is it not precisely the SELF? 

            If one would pursue the argument that there is no basis for the SELF because it cannot be perceived, I would argue back that this idea reduces the human being to only being a body. This is probably why Hume’s idea that human beings have no identity came up, for the body on which we attach an identity to, is always changing. Because at every moment whether humans are conscious of it or not, something changes in the compositions of the human body such that it can no longer have the same identity before this moment of change.

            I believe however that the human being is not merely a body that can be perceived neither is it only a composition of the senses which perceive. There is something more to the human being than the five senses alone, something that perceives but is simultaneously capable of analysing. 

            I further believe that perception can be done with the senses as made possible by the body and the analysis can be done by the self, or if I may call it the soul, which performs intellectual operations. Without perception, there can be no analysis and without the analysis, the perception will not make sense and will therefore not matter if it is perceive or not in the first place. Therefore, the human being cannot be just a perceiver. The human being must simultaneously be a perceiver and analyzer, not functioning separate from each other because the human being is both body and soul and they are not separate for they are partners which need to be together in order to be able to operate. 

 
One of the biggest problems one can find in taking part in this phenomenon called group sex is its threat to how one understands sexual satisfaction. In today’s world, the phrase “more is always better” has been accepted as a custom. And this is not to be contested with regard to things that truly better the lives of people. However, there has been a lack of discernment on what is really beneficial and because of this many have wrongly believed that more of anything and everything is always better. This mentality, when placed in the wrong context, can easily cause damage to the lives of people. Take for instance the frequent example of alcoholic beverage consumption, while it has been evidenced that moderate drinking can lower risks of heart disease, overconsumption can actually cause death because of the same disease. Over indulgence of anything is harmful, and it is not a different story when it comes to matters of sex. The nature of sex is to be that which deepens the relationships of couples. By engaging in sexual intercourse, a new dimension in the relationship is opened, one which includes an elevated sense of satisfaction and comfort with your lover. This however is only precise when in the context of marriage – for it is not enough to only claim that sex is best situated in the context of marriage; rather the claim should be that sex is to be situated solely in the context of marriage. Therefore it is tragic when people engage in sexual intercourse outside marriage for they miss the precision of this supposed satisfaction that marital sex can give. The sad truth is that non-marital sex is prevalent in this day and age. Digging deeper we will find that in the different degrees by which non-marital sex is practiced, the degrees of the consequence it garners also vary. For instance, when a woman engages in group sex, she is probably more inclined to feel guilt than when engaged in non-marital sex with her boyfriend. Group sex has high degrees of consequences, and involved in it is not only guilt but also deeper issues such as a distorted view of sexual satisfaction that God intended for human beings to experience.

 In Richard M. Stephenson’s article, Social Problems, he cited a research that was conducted to find out what types of people are actually involved in group sex. It was discovered that a significant number of those who engaged in group sex were regularly conformists (whether married or not) to other aspects of life – that is to say that they were the kind of people who followed norms or even rules set by society. One of the reasons they gave for involving themselves in group sex was that one of the satisfactions group sex gave them was that of “increased quality, quantity and frequency of sex”. Some couples even attributed their improved sexual performance because of the new experience they have encountered in engaging in group sex. Some of them claimed that they found it as an enhancement to their relationships because it spiced up their otherwise “conventional” sex lives. (Stephenson, 1973)

What is the conventional sex life? Is it not the kind of sex life that is was supposed to be? That is to say, isn’t it that the conventionality of sex life is its actual nature? This nature can then be traced back to how God intended human sexuality to be – one which radiates a “language of love”, as Lauren Winner would put it. Group sex definitely goes against this conventional nature of sex because not only does it demote that language of love that was meant for spouses, it also damages the view of the joy of sexual intercourse the spouses supposedly share. In saying that people who are involved in group sex get satisfaction from increased frequency of sex is an indication that they are no longer adequately satisfied with the normal, intended frequency of conventional sex. This in turn has consequences in marriage.

In Duane Denfeld’s article, The Family Coordinator, another research was conducted for the counselors who have had patients that quit the lifestyle of group sex. From the nine hundred and sixty-five questionnaires that the counselors answered, some of the reasons for their counselees’’ quitting were: the feelings of guilt, emotional attachments that were developed outside of the committed relationships, fear of discovery, threat to marriage, boredom, and many more. Even if the reasons why the couples quit are not really surprising, it is noteworthy that those reasons were precisely a contradiction to the opinions of the people mentioned in Stephenson’s article. The couples engaged in group sex soon found out that the activity was no longer exciting enough, no longer satisfying enough. Many of the couples also found the activity leading to a threat to their marital bond because of jealousy that caused more fighting between them. (Denfeld, 1974) This is not unlike the example of overconsumption of alcoholic beverage. Engaging in sexual intercourse was supposed to be in the context of marriage so when these couples went overboard, they suffered the consequences. According to the Christian teaching, the grace of God in terms of sexual intercourse was only available for those who were in the sacramental marriage of which conditions was that those who are part of it are a man and a woman, and that their relationship is shared and approved with and by the community of Christ’s body. 


Denfeld, D. (1974). Dropouts from Swinging. The Family Coordinator , 45-49.

Stephenson, R. M. (1973). Involvement in Deviance: An Example and Some Theoretical Implications. Social Problems , 173-190 .

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